Anal sex is one of the few remaining aspects of sex that numerous people consider risque, perhaps even taboo.
Most women who are considering anal sex for the first time have lots of questions. Most commonly, ladies have concerns that it will be painful, uncomfortable, or awkward. But for men playing with own butts is more serious than women. Anal for straight men has long been a taboo. In part due to false understanding of emasculation and partly due to the âewâ factor. Those insecurities, mostly rooted in internalized homophobia, have kept straight guys from getting in on butt play.
So why should we accept our back door entertainment? For men and women each side, Paloqueth concluded facts as below.
The reasons that women should have anal sex:
1.Kinky Wild Side
Every woman has a little wild streak in them as well as a desire to be a bad girl. Who wants to always be the goody two shoes? There's something alluring and mysterious about the dark side, dangerous and edgy. The truth that tight little back door is âforbiddenâ and âtabooâ makes that wild kinky side show up in the bedroom. Plus, if woman act like a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets, her man is going to die of happiness; Embrace the dark side and give man a double win. Thus we all win then.
Let's face it. Anal sex sure do hurt if woman not lubed up and relaxed. Plus that thing is TIGHT. Which is why men LOVE it. But shoving it up there is gonna hurt like hell . Men enjoy being trusted. They love to hear women say yes to their desires and lay our pleasure in their hands. It feeds into their primal instinct to protect and naturally dominate. Women would like to give, so handing over the âI trust you with my a-cardâ is something rare and novel. Trust is actually a gift to the two of you and creates a whole other level of intimacy, and that is something ladies always want.
Orgasms are god's gift to women for being so loving. Sadly, 66% of women are FAKING IT. In past statistics only 34% of women experience an actual orgasm. Why? Do you not enjoy sex? Ladies, the first step to a real orgasm is to actually enjoy sex and embrace the crazy dirty hot nasty side of it. Luckily, anal sex, like doggy style, allows the shaft to hit a woman's g-spot at different angle. Ever rub the palm of your hand? Feels pretty good and kind of ticklish. Now rub the back of your hand. The sensitivity is higher and it feels even more tingly! That back-of-hand caressing is kind of how the g-spot's being stroked in anal sex. The tingling pressure builds and then it's an earth shattering, soul-searing, ear-poppinâ, sky-soaring orgasm. Not that same feeling from vaginal sex you can get, it's just more tingly and intense. In Shortâ¦Fireworks.
The goodness for straight men:
1. Your girlfriend might like topping
Thereâs a great number of women who like topping guys. Broad City, yet again on being anal progressive, introduced TV to pegging (when a woman uses a strap-on with a man).
Crystal, a bisexual woman, told us that pegging for her is erotic.
âPleasing my partner was a huge component,â Crystal said. âAlso, learning to please myself at the same time. Most strap-ons have parts that go in the woman as well as on the clitoris.â
Indeed, many strap-ons already have parts that penetrate the female partner while she tops. This pleasures both the man and the woman as she knocks (and knocks knocks knocks) on his back door.
2. It can prevent cancer-really!
Well, ejaculating regularly can. According to a Harvard Medical study, âmen who ejaculated 21 or more times a month enjoyed a 33% lower risk of prostate cancer compared with men who reported four to seven ejaculations a month throughout their lifetimes.â
Stimulating your prostate enables you to feel for any abnormalities while expediting the ejaculation process.
3. The prostrate-stimulated orgasm is amazing
Orgasming while having your prostate stimulated is the holy grail of orgasms. As Mark Simpson put it in the Telegraph, stimulating your prostate can give you âmind-blowing, leg-shaking, eye-rolling, neighbour-panicking pleasure.â The prostate, affectionately called the P-spot, is actually a hidden treasure cove of pleasures. Your nerve endings will give you sensations you wouldnât be able to achieve otherwise.
In general, whether women or straight men, like it or not, really should try it at least once no matter the taboo. Sex is what men and women are designed for and it is absolutely beautiful, while anal play is the door to a whole world of fun. What else, anal sex obviously doesnât make babies. So what are you waiting for? The ass revolution has arrived, itâs time to play with your ass, itâs 2017 now!